Hot Girl Summer is officially under wraps, and it's time to gear up for Gilmore Girl Fall. Inspired by cozy TV series Gilmore Girls, here's some fool-proof ways you can be your best autumn girly self.
1. Read, and read a LOT.
Reading is a Rory non-negotiable. Always carry a book, and always read something you are actually interested in. Be practical too - Carrying Dune (500+ pages) on your day-to-day errands might not be a great idea. Reading is generally a great way to elevate your lifestyle and get you off your phone. If you're looking for a good recommendation, click here.
2. Don't compare, focus on you.
Rory has rarely ever worried about what the people around her were up to - she focused on herself, her own ambition, and came out on top. Learn to stop comparing someone else's journey to yours! We're all on our own paths, and we've got to make the best of them. Be secure in yourself, your own plans, and who you are!
3. Be passionate about learning.
Rory's wanted to travel the world to develop her perspective on things for as long as we all can remember. She's an avid learner with a huge love for all kinds of education. From learning the history of the music she likes to knowing the politics happening thousands of miles away, she's excited about broadening her perspectives. She's early to every class, studies into the night, and is always down to find out about something new. In short: be open minded.
4. Be goal-oriented.
Being set on your ambitions is a fierce Gilmore trait. Rory isn't one to let go of something she wants, even when the circumstances might not be the best for her. She works hard, tries to be as independent as possible, and often learns the hard way to ask for help. Set your long term and short term goals and try reshape your lifestyle to achieve them!
5. Study. & Study again.
Getting straight A's is no easy feat for all of us - do your best to get the grades you deserve! Work hard, play hard, and reap what you sow. Listen closely, ask questions (no matter how stupid you think they might be), and always try your best. Studying the way she did is what got her into every university she applied to!
6. Be organized.
Be early to every class with the right materials needed, always have what you need on the go, and be prepared for the day that follows. If you know you have a paper due on Wednesday, get it done before that and set a reminder to hand it in as soon as you can. Study your schedule and then make your day-to-day reflect it! We all need downtime, and we need to be able to get it without procrastinating.
7. Frequent a small coffee house.
You can't have Luke's Diner, but you can have any other coffee shop near you. Try choosing one that's run by a family, or is generally a small business - they'll appreciate your ins and outs, and you can appreciate the homely vibe! Ask beforehand if they're alright with you staying and studying, or if they have a loyalty card that you can make the best of. Ask everyone their names, be kind and polite!
8. Eat well.
Having a good and healthy appetite is a trademark Gilmore trait. They aren't the healthiest eaters, but they do have deep appetites and aren't afraid of saying so. Food is fuel for life, and to truly live, you gotta eat! Try out new foods and don't be scared to taste something you haven't before.
9. Do your best to be aware of your privileges.
This is actually a swing in the direction away from the way Rory's character developed in the show. Rory's got it all - and sometimes she loses sight of that and thinks that she's had the same life as anyone else in Star's Hollow. Be aware of yourself and be realistic with your choices! Don't look down on anyone, even if you believe you're punching up by doing so. Always be respectful, and try not to judge!
10. Write, then write some more.
The great love of most readers is to write. Rory, who's lifelong ambition was the eventually become a journalist, has written and written all her life! From writing for the school paper to writing for the Stamford Eagle-Gazette, Rory has always been consistent with her passion of writing. Start writing to your favourite publications, see who accepts submissions, try applying for your own school paper or local newspaper publishing house.
Before you ask- yes, the attic diaries always accepts submissions! Get on your Gilmore grind and send a little something in. We'll be waiting!
And there you have it, 10 things you can do to live your Gilmore Girls daydreams out to their fullest extent. Whether you loved how the show ended or only have heart eyes for Chilton, Jess era Rory, these are little tips and tricks you can use to immerse yourself in this kind of life. Always keep in mind - when you take inspiration, the key is to make it your own. Build on top of it! There's only one of each of us on this planet, and we can't have copies walking about, can we?
Until next time!